One Trusted Adult

How to Build Strong Connections & Healthy Boundaries with Young People by Brooklyn Raney, paperback

Research shows that just one trusted adult can have a profound effect on a child’s life, influencing that young person toward positive growth, greater engagement in school and community activities, and better overall health.

Those of us who teach and mentor young people must learn to build trust while outlining clearly the limits that keep the relationship healthy and our professional practices sustainable.

In this revised edition of One Trusted Adult, You’ll Find:

Whether you’re an educator, mentor, coach, administrator, parent, or anyone else supporting youth, this new edition of One Trusted Adult—filled with fresh perspectives and timely insights—will become your companion, your catalyst, and your call to action.

Dr. Brooklyn Raney is a Researcher

whose work explores the intersection of student perception, teacher sustainability, and parent expectation as it relates to an ethic of care in schools.

An experienced educator and the founder of One Trusted Adult, Dr. Raney speaks to and facilitates workshops with educators, parents, and youth-serving professionals around the world

Education

Keynotes

Brooklyn Speaking
At Every Level Trust & Boundary-Building Strategies for Leaders

The relationships leaders build with their teams directly impact the way those team members treat and support the young people in their care.

In this session, Dr. Brooklyn Raney guides leaders in reflecting on the example they set—intentionally or not—when it comes to trust, boundaries, and care.

Grounded in her research and work with schools across the country, this keynote empowers leaders to shape relational cultures that are healthy, sustainable, and aligned with the mission of the school.

We all want to show up for the young people in our lives—but how do we do that without losing ourselves? In this talk, Dr. Raney explores the four care modes—Challenging, Cheerleading, Comforting, and Coaching—and the potential shadow sides of each when it is overused or misapplied.
Participants will gain clarity on how to offer care that supports youth while protecting their own energy and impact.
Research shows that the strongest protective factor for a young person is a trusting relationship with at least one caring adult in the spaces where they spend the most time. In this session, Dr. Raney equips educators and mentors with the practical strategies they need to become that trusted adult—without sacrificing personal boundaries or well-being. Interactive and tool-rich, this session is designed to energize, empower, and unite teams of caring adults.

Youth today face real and rising challenges—but one protective factor consistently cuts through the noise: having at least one trusted adult. In this inspiring keynote, Dr. Brooklyn Raney makes a compelling case for connection, sharing stories, research, and real-world examples that remind us why our role in the lives of youth matters.

Participants leave with renewed motivation to be that “somebody”—and to help build a culture where every young person has more than one caring and trusted adult in their corner.

You’re doing important work—but it’s also exhausting. In this honest and affirming session, Dr. Raney names what so many adults are feeling: fatigue, emotional overload, and a creeping loss of self. Through humor, research, and actionable strategies, she offers a framework for reclaiming energy, strengthening boundaries, and finding purpose again—both individually and in community with other adults.

Dr. Raney has lectured at a range of distinguished universities:

What to Expect When

Brooklyn Speaks

Every Talk Comes With…

In-School Training

Growing tomorrow’s leaders while guiding today’s mentors.

Half-day and day-long workshops are offered through the organization that Brooklyn founded, One Trusted Adult, which has partnered with over 150 schools and organizations nationwide.

From regional student leadership conferences to high-impact sessions for educators and caregivers, each experience is designed to strengthen connection, inspire action, and build school cultures where care and clarity go hand in hand.

Participants leave with practical tools, shared language, and renewed commitment to creating communities where everyone feels seen, supported, and ready to lead.

What Leaders Are Saying

Let’s build a culture where care is intentional, visible, and sustainable.

Whether you lead a classroom, a team, or an entire company—Brooklyn has tools to help you do it with clarity, connection, and care.